Spot Revisit :: Lovey’s Tea Shoppe (#18) – Best Tea

With the exception of Muir’s last spring, the end of our 3rd Leg is full of Revisits to Tea Spots from the start of the Tour almost 10 years ago!! I’ve given them their own Superlatives too, so be in expectation of Best Sandwiches, Best Everything, Best Experience, and Best Venue coming very soon! But for now, let’s focus on Best Tea

Spot #18 Revisit:

Lovey’s Tea Shoppe

4430 Coast Highway Pacifica, CA 94044

www.loveysteashoppe.com

Different trim, different sign, and a few new galvanized tub planters in the front… Still the cutest random building along the highway! We often passed by Lovey’s on the way to our beach for Beach Days, and every single time- I would point to it and say aloud in the car ‘See YOU later!’, like the cool mom that I am. (shrugs) Hahah!

The inside looks a lot different than before. Right when you walk in, there’s a gorgeous curio cabinet filled with all the cup + saucer sets you could ever want…their teas, and different trinkets + jewelry to shop. To the left, maybe like 4 tables for guests. And then the right side is their like office space. Uuuultra intimate!! And we LOVED it. We had the place all to ourselves for a bit.

I took 2 of my darling friends. When my family moved to our new city 2 years ago, we quickly connected. Which we all kind of laugh at, cuz we don’t just do that with people. But as I always say, “Real recognize Real.” So, we felt that familial bond early in. They are fleshly sisters and are both caregivers as well. Hardworking + giving women. *Shout Out* to all the Caregivers out there!! And to all the ones accepting the caretaking too, I see you.

I loved this table. I was trying to measure it with my eyes, cuz we are on the market for a new dining table at home hehe. It was the perfect size, and we had so much space for just the 3 of us.

LOTS of teas to choose from…hold on. [I counted] 50 teas PLUS like 4 or 5 featured teas of the month. Now usually, that would overwhelm me. But since I came to this place especially for the tea- I was game! I’m just gonna list all the ones I was interested in ordering cuuuz I want to!!

Black Vanilla w/ Lavender

Black Vanilla

Black Currant

CHESTNUT

Chocolate Raspberry

White Peach

Lychee Rose Green

Vanilla Rooibos

Vanilla Rooibos Chai

Pacifica Blue

Now you know what you can look forward to when you come!

Okay so, we didn’t get those. HAHA. 2 of us ordered from their Specials, and 1 of us ordered a different one on the menu.

Earl’s Chocolate Cream (special) – This was explained as a ‘chocolate earl grey’. You all know I love me a creamy earl grey…but, I’ve never had a chocolate one. So intriguing right?! So glad my friend chose this one, cuz I wanted to try it too! Her first sip, she said “MMM!” It really was the creamiest.

Chocolate Cherry Bliss (special) – This one was my choice. Not usually a chocolate tea-lover, not usually a cherry tea-lover either. But these two together?? Bring it on sister! You could tell right away it was chocolate AND cherry, no question about it. Choc up front then cherry in the back, and ooh it was good!

Chocolate Truffle (regular menu) – She said you didn’t need anything with it. And that my friends, is how you can tell a good quality cuppa. When there’s no need for sugar or cream or honey or lemon to “doctor up” your cup, that is high quality tea. What was fascinating about this one- it didn’t smell like my chocolate [tea]. It smelled like a legit truffle!! There was a noticeable difference and this one was indeed Chocolate TRUFFLE tea.

Adorable wallpapered background for this tier shot!

Cucumber with Dill Cream Cheese – These were thicker cuts of cucumber we were dealing with here, and I liked it!! Nice crunch, and the dill was faint.

Coronation (Curried) Chicken Salad – The curry in this chicken salad was the perfect amount. My favorite sandwich from the bunch!

Ham with Marionberry Jam & Market Greens – I didn’t even know how to describe this one…!? It was complex, but a good complex. And the bread was so soft!

By this time, we were all gulping our teas. “I’m gulping!” my girl says.

Sliced Green Apple with Cheddar and Pub Mustard – This one had really fun textures together.

My friend wanted to try another tea. I love when tea rooms allow this! I mean, when you offer so many, you can’t fault your guests for wanting to try more than the one pot that comes with their tea service. This is a TEA party right? So for me, it speaks volumes when a Spot allows you to switch out or try more than one. Big points!

Peach Bellini – She said “I like this, I like this, I like this!” That it kept tasting different after every sip. I thought it smelled so delightful, I wanted a perfume of it!! Hehe. She loved it so much, she even bought some!

They let you choose your scones here! It was either Honey Pecan or Lemon Ginger today. Two of us got the pecan, and my other friend is a ginger-girl so that was a no-brainer choice for her.

Honey Pecan – It was so fluffy, almost cake like. Loved the crunchy pecans.

Lemon Ginger – My girl “Loved” hers! Her sister even liked it better than ours. They bought some of those too!

Crumpet – Aren’t those tiny butter hearts just the cutest!? Are you gonna say it with me this time? All together now: “I love when they serve crumpets!!” These were the chewiest. And they really like the lemon curd!

At the end of your tea service, they come around with their Sweets Tray! Today’s had: 2 different types of petit fours, a big cookie, and 2 different types of truffles. You get to pick one. (But I really wish we could have chosen TWO hehe!)

Tiramisu Truffle – I chose this one cuz it was the most different aand cuz it’s my husband’s favorite. (smiley face) I knew I would only take a bite and take the rest of it home to him. Creamy texture, yum!

I didn’t notice this the last time… But, they have the sweetest outdoor set up!

I’m so happy we got to revisit Lovey’s. Even tho we pass it often, I haven’t been back to have tea since February 2016!! (I didn’t realize I had scheduled this visit in the same month!? How neat) What I had written about in my initial review still stands true- beautiful customer service. I wish I could go into detail for exactly how they accommodated our party, but I’ll leave that between us. (wink) Just know that they took GOOD CARE of our Caregivers, and my girls loved this place! “Superb” pick, is what one of them told me. Always makes me feel good to know that I chose a good spot for my tea-loving friends too!

If you are looking for an afternoon tea with really high quality tea, this is your place.

A bonus for me is it’s by the water. I grew up fishing with my Daddy at Pacifica Pier, so making the walk down to the ocean is my biggest treat after having tea there. The waves were feisty and we got a good fix of some Salt Water Therapy!! Ugh, I could have stood there all day…

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NEW MENU ALERT! Claremont Hotel | Galentine’s Day Tea

If you read my first experience of visiting the Claremont, you’ll know just how HUGE it was for me to be invited back again to try their newest tea service menu!!

If you have no idea what I’m talking about, read this first. I’ll wait.

All caught up? Okay good. Ready now?! Hehe.

New Menu Visit:

Claremont Hotel

41 Tunnel Road Berkeley, CA 94705

claremontresortandclub.com

On February 10 and 11, the Claremont Club & Spa Hotel offered their NEW + VERY FIRST Galentine’s Day Tea tea service menu and we had the special privilege of being one of the firsts to try it! If you don’t know what ‘Galentine’s’ is (like I didn’t, lol), I looked it up for yall! It’s a time to celebrate the girlfriends in your life!! “Ooooo My Girlfriends, there through thick and thin… My girlfriends, there for anything… My Girlfriends” (are singing along in your head?) Naturally, I thought to bring 2 of my girlfriends who expressed interest in having tea at the Claremont…but they couldn’t make this one. (Heyyy hey Cutie + Cutie Jr.! You were missed.) As I was thinking of another couple girls to bring, I see my husband’s puppy dog eyes waiting for an invite to be extended haha! Okay, I’ll take you Boo!! He is my biggest supporter + cheerleader.

I was already anticipating the gorgeous room they were gonna take us to. Seriously one of the best venues, guys. You just know you’re surrounded by luxury.

As we were being seated by our stunning Hostess, I could tell she did her homework and knew exactly who I was. She knew when we were here last, was so accommodating, and gave us a little intro about the Harpist that was there. Have yall ever been entertained by a Harpist tho?! When I tell you it’s the most beautiful thing!! (whiny face emoji) I never really knew how much I needed a harp in my life ’til today! Hahah… She played all the best songs- I wanted to sing along and record each one all afternoon!! (Give her a follow here)

It was so hard not to look at the menu. I really like to be surprised you guys! While waiting for our tea selections, we were offered a glass of sparkling rosè. Our Hostess was so sweet, she even turned the label to face me since she knew I was about to film a video!! I chose their sencha, and the Huz picked jasmine today.

Kyushu Japan Sencha (Spring harvest yields a deliciously vegetal green tea with buttery smoothness) – I’ve been a sencha girl lately, and they caught me with that ‘buttery’. A classic good sencha.

Organic Jasmine Gold Dragon (Nighttime harvested jasmine flowers offer an extensive floral character to a delicate early spring green tea) – Very fragrant! A really good quality jasmine.

Take it in, go ahead.

Rosemary Honey Biscuit – Okay, I don’t even like rosemary!! But it was so sweet-smelling and inviting and tasted so good. Crispy edges and fluffy insides check! With that whipped butter and their signature honey…ugh, can’t get enough. Savored every morsel.

Sour Cherry Chocolate Scone (Orange Marmalade, Devonshire Cream) – The crispiest! Tart cherry, so juicy. This was like a dessert, decadent. Definitely my favorite of the entire tier.

Maitake Mushroom Tartine (Whipped Burrata, Toasted Hazelnuts, Thyme Honey) – I’m gonna copy my notes here verbatim, so yall know I always keep it real with you: “tasted like weed, but in the best way possible.” (laughing crying emoji) I asked my husband if that was offensive to say, and he said people might be turned off. Then I told him I couldn’t not write that, cuz that was my legit thought! But later I even asked the chef, and he even said it was the best compliment haha! Now it has been over 20-years for me… But even if you have never had it but have smelled it, I guarantee this is how you would explain this one too. It was just so woodsy and NOTHING like I’ve ever tasted before. This item was the Huz’s favorite and he goes “if you don’t want it, I’ll take it off your hands” before I even got to take my first bite!! Forreal no pun intended, but I INHALED that thing it was so good. [Just confirming for those in the back- THERE WAS NO CANNABIS IN THIS TEA SANDWICH.]

Truffled Egg Salad (Chive, Pain au Lait) – Perfect.

Smoked Mary’s Chicken Salad (Blistered Grapes, Compressed Celery, Croissant) – Smokiest chicken of all time!! Like it had been in the smoker all day. Wait, like since the night before! The chicken pieces were so juicy + tender, almost melts in your mouth. And yall already know I love me some GRAPES and plenty of celery in my chicken salad.

Lobster Roll (Fermented Chili, Shaved Fennel, Brioche) – Absolutely could not get enough of that crunchy fennel!! (sigh) It just adds such an experience to this sandwich. It sliced so thinly but still has a strong bite. I don’t know how he executes that, but…give me more!! And the Huz loved the sweetness of the brioche with it.

Shaved Prime Rib (Horseradish Aioli, Mizuna, Chive Parker House Roll) – Already knew it was gonna be good with all dat arugula hanging out there. It’s like they packed extra for me cuz they knew I am obsessed! We both loved how easy it was to take a bite out that meat. There’s nothing more embarrassing than being on a date, biting a piece of meat (or like sushi with that seaweed boyy), and then it dragging all out your bread!! (covers eyes) None of that with this!

Vanilla Panna Cotta – I did a dance! I usually only take a bite or two first of everything (to make sure I have enough space to try all items offered), buut I took an extra bite of this!! And the Huz said this was his favorite from the sweets level.

Blackberry Pistachio Financier – My favorite texture: chewy and dense. The filling wasn’t too tart either.

Shortly after taking my phone shots of this one, we heard a voice from behind us… ”Is this your Galentine?!” The Executive Chef had come out to meet us!! It was beyond a pleasure to meet Mr. Joseph L. Paire. (Follow him too! here) We complimented him on this new menu and he gave us a bit of background on himself and the thought process to this tea service. WHAT A TREAT. That was so cool!!

Blood Orange Cheesecake – There was a nice bitterness at the end of this, loved that.

Red Velvet Raspberry Roulade – Nice sponge. I really liked the aftertaste this one gave me.

Strawberry Champagne Macaron – This smelled like a perfume! SO flavorful. Sometimes macaron shells are kinda bland…not this at all.

Final thoughts… Okay so, I barely paid attention to my tea! Ha! This menu is IT!! And the whole time I’m smelling my open rosemary biscuit. He turned me into a rosemary-lover over here!! I could just have the scone and biscuits and be good.

Toward the end of our meal, after the last of the other guests had left, my husband + I found ourselves being of the last in the room. It got so quiet and we started awkwardly chuckling! Just then, Chef came back! He took a seat at the table next to us and we spent a good 15-minutes in a private + intimate setting, just talking about the food industry + community. What a brilliant connection! A memorable time for sure. When I say they pulled the red carpet out for us… This experience trying the new menu and their top notch customer service- I tell you, one of the coolest moments yet of the entire Tour. Chef outdid himself with this Galentine’s business! The last time we came was good. This time (sigh) = Excellent. In the history of parTEA with me’s Tea House Tour, I have not changed placement of a Tea Spot on my raTEAngs after a Revisit. But my experience was so elevated here, I am really thinking of raising the Claremont on my list!! Readers/Followers/Tea Lovers: I hope you all find some time in your calendar to dine there. They are offering new tea service themes + brunch menus this year, so keep on the lookout! Stick with us, and we’ll keep you updated here too. Enter your email below yall, don’t miss out!

The Huz + I took a walk to their garden downstairs, and I grabbed a few shots for you. Enjoy!

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NEW MENU ALERT! Muir’s Tea Room | Alice in Wonderland

You already know how deep my love goes for Muir’s Tea Room in Sebastopol! They have been the reigning Number 1 Spot in my raTEAng since we first visited them in September 2018!! They were also first of our Revisits on this Leg of the Tour, when I took my family with me earlier last year in the spring. (And I know yall love them too, cuz I get so many messages + DMs about visiting them!) It should be no surprise then that I happily accepted their invitation to try their new Alice in Wonderland High Tea tea service menu!! The first time in 10 years they are offering whimsical treats and Muir’s style Wonderland decor!

New Menu Visit:

Muir’s Tea Room

330 S Main Street Sebastopol, CA 94572

www.muirstearoomandcafe.com

Let me start by saying that my sister kept calling it the ‘stormiest day of the year’ hehe! It was rainy + windy, but nothing that would stop us from our Sister Date. She had been wanting to try Muir’s for the longest, and we were finally getting our time! It takes me a little over half an hour to get to her place, then about another hour to Sebastopol from there. Things were getting cancelled and people were choosing to stay indoors…but we were NOT gonna miss Muir’s!! Our husbands said a prayer for us and we were off! Safely. The drive wasn’t bad at all. We even made it with a good 30-minutes to spare. We continued our convo in the car until our tea time. I checked my phone real quick to see what time it was, when I noticed 10 texts. Oopsies! I was getting messages from them saying that the power had just gone out!!

I replied to see if they were okay or needed any help with anything, and to see what we should do. Then we took a little detour to the Whole Foods down the street for a bathroom break while we waited. Sure enough, I got a voicemail. But as I finished listening to them being ultra apologetic and seeing if we would at least come in for tea and to-go boxes (aren’t they so sweet!?), another incoming text: “The power just came back on!” They were able to seat us and we were thrilled!

ALWAYS VIP treatment when I come for a visit, and they sat us at the cutest little nook. Since I’m a Eating-Outside-Lover, I’m usually on their patio. But (even before I knew it was gonna rain), I told them I’d adore trying an indoor seating this time. We were welcomed in the cutest little nook!! I had to post 2 pictures of it.

Of course, I got up to look around and admire all their new decor for this theme! Mama Owner described it as “Alice Upscale”, which we fully agreed! More whimsical, than cartoony. They did an EXCELLENT JOB executing every bit. My sister kept remarking on how much it felt like we were just hanging out in someone’s home! So comfy, not overdone, just right.

Something new and very cool that they had at each tables were those old school Viewfinders! Remember those?! Inside were slides of well, Alice!! (feeling love emoji)

After a chat with the owner and her daughter (ugh, love them), we got settled in and looked at our tea choices. So many good ones of course! They always have a few back-of-the-menu specials that they throw in, and my sister chose one from there. Something caught my eye on their regular menu that I haven’t tried before, so I got that one.

Elderflower Melon (decaf herbal)- Oh it poured so prettily! This photo does it no justice at all. It was like this soft corally pink hue! ”Super floral,” she says, as this was my sister’s pick. You could definitely taste the elderflower first, then the melon, and it was creamy at the end.

Raspberry Vanilla (rooibos) – I chose good!! Perfect flavors, as per usual. Creamy fruit, my fave.

Alice’s Garden Salad with Muir’s Signature Dressing – The tallest salad you ever did see, right?! Ugh, that salad. For such a simple looking thing, you would not expect so much packed flavor in one bite?? Those edamame + almonds together just worked seamlessly. And that dressing (I wanna cry), again simple dijon-based but paired nicely. I kept saying one more bite to myself so I could save room, but it was so hard to stop! AND something I have to mention that made me just stop dead in my tracks- when our sweet server came to deliver these (plate in one hand, tiny container in the other), she says “Oh and we knew you didn’t like green onions so we didn’t add any to yours, but put them on the side in case.” (eyes big emoji, whiny emoji, crying emoji) SWEETEST SENTIMENT EVERRR!!! They KNEW me!!?! I was dumbfounded, jaw…on the ground, eyes…totally watered. Now THAT is customer service. Mic drop. Periodt. All the things. Unmatched, unmatched.

This tier was packed to capacity!! The fullest and most attractive tier! I could barely contain my whiny excitement and absolutely could not wait to try everything!!

White Rabbit’s Cucumber & Chive Tea Sandwich – They never miss with their cucumber. Buttery, perfect crunch, awesome ratio. I will never understand how they make their plant-based stuff taste like BUTTER!? My sister + I could not get enough.

A tiny detail but I have to mention, and I don’t have its own picture… Our waters came with a cut strawberry on the rim. Now it wasn’t strawberry-infused water. However, because of where it’s placed- as you take a sip, you are getting all of that strawberry scented goodness! It was an experience for sure. Simplicity that felt like luxury.

Cheshire Cat’s “Sausage” and Roasted Pepper Finger Sandwich – Favorite item on this tea service, hands down. They made their version of In-N-Out sauce. My sister, after finishing hers, “I don’t even like In-N-Out sauce.” Hahah! Oh and it was far from a ‘finger sandwich’, that was a hearty offering! The crostini had a nice crunchy bite, without it scratching up your mouth. And those “sausages” legit taste like a sausage. Magic, I’m tellin you.

The Blue Caterpillar’s Mushroom Tart – Very clever, Muir’s! Okay, I see you!! I can picture that scene now! This was pastry-heavy (sister agreed), which we both loved that part. She said it was “not hard, really tender.” It was salty, but welcome.

Down the Rabbit Hole Spiral Pesto Puff Pastry – Again, very creative! Mama Owner says her + her daughter worked hard to perfect this menu + theme. It was well thought out and it shows. Quoting my sister for this one: “Super buttery, really good pastry again, and very cheesy tasting.” She also added “I haven’t tasted anything vegan yet!?” Which she has tried tons of vegan food, so she knows her stuff. Muir’s said that was the best compliment.

March Hare Artichoke Heart & Hearts of Palm Medley Tea Sandwich – If my memory serves me right, this is the first time ever having hearts of palm on a tea service and I don’t know why more tea rooms don’t use it!? I love hearts of palm!! My daughter + I love having it even as just a snack! This sandwich was so complex. It was tangy, a little mushy, nice heat in the back (you could take it. If I could take it, you could take it). Loved the crunch of that lettuce, and the bread was so soft.

Hatter’s Always Tea Time Scone with imported English Tiptree Raspberry Preserves & “Clotted Cream” – I’m sure I’m repeating myself from old blog posts of theirs, but their scone is really superior. The crispiest edges, fluffy insides, and perfect savory/sweet flavor. Longtime readers know this: whenever I see a tiny JAR of preserves, you already have my heart. Hehe. And I wish I got a picture of it… Coolest thing. They have a little stand by their front door with a basket of empties and a sign that says ‘free, please take what you need’. What an awesome way to recycle and share with the community!

Queen of Hearts Cherry Jammy Dodger – The jam was not overpowering and the pastry was soo chewy. I couldn’t stop nibbling at this, while having slices of the juiciest cantaloupe!

THANK YOU FOR HANGING OUT WITH US ON THE BLOG AND READING ABOUT THEIR NEW MENU! AS A GIFT FROM parTEA with me + Muir’s Tea Room, MENTION THE WORD “UNBIRTHDAY” AT YOUR NEXT VISIT AND ENJOY A FREE TREAT FROM MUIR’S!! (This offer expires September 30, 2024)

The Duchess’s Fresh Peppermint Patty – A nice surprise! This melts in your mouth! Only took a bite so I could save the rest of the Huz, cuz this is his favorite. When I took it home and he had it, he says, “Man, that was better than the original.” You heard it here, Muir’s!!

Tweedledum and Tweedledee Swirl Cupcake – The moistest!! Such a good bite to it. Not too sweet and not too much frosting, which was whipped nicely.

Muir’s Tea Room really outdid themselves this time. (as per ushe) The attention to detail with every bit: the decor, the food, the titles of the food… Mom + Friend, high fives!! Thank you for having us. You showed my sister + I a TOP TIME. She kept raving about how outstanding the service was. Not only do you feel like you’re at family’s house…but you actually feel like family!! Readers + Followers + Social Media Friends- you guys ask me about this place all the time! If you’re waiting for a time to go, it’s NOW!! Pay them a visit, enjoy their new Alice in Wonderland High Tea menu, tell them I said hi, and get your FREE TREAT!!! You have until March 25, 2024 to experience this new theme. Don’t miss out! Stop by their hard-not-to-buy-anything gift shop too!

To my Amazing Sister, thank you for being my date. Thank you for driving us safely through the rain and being one of very FEW I get to let my belly hang out with. I always appreciate our sister time. I feel so safe, so validated, so seen, so understood. Ending this post with such a great shot she took of this original top hat. She’s mad creative too, guys. I’m older than her, but I def wanna be her when I grow up! See you soon Tea Lovers!!

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I was supposed to go to Tea this Saturday (well actually, I was supposed to go to Tea 2 weeks ago… But my son had a gig, then we had an event… Yada yada yada). But since I’m not and I haven’t shared a post in a bit, I wanted to do an About The Author post for yall. I had an original topic I wanted to talk about, but then I saw this thing…and that made me change gears for this one. I’ll talk about that one another time!

A thread (from user @richrashann) said: “Social media tricked y’all into thinking that all hobbies need to be monetized. It’s okay to just enjoy things you like to do.”

This struck a chord with me so bad. I’ve talked a little bit about this before (on this post), how I have a knack for turning passions into jobs. But, I don’t think I ever got into really why. A supplemental income. It all started after I had my first child. My bio mom had said she would stay with me and help with the baby for 6 months. Except after 1, she left. I thankfully + hurriedly employed a close friend of ours to be our babysitter. Tho after a little bit, her sister got pregnant and she was needed for them. No childcare once again. It was NEVER in the plans for me to be a stay-at-home mom. I made that real clear to the Huz before we even ever conceived. ”Don’t think I’m gonna be those moms who stay home, cuz I love working too much okay!” But here we were- faced with this situation that needed a solution, and fast! It just didn’t make sense to me to work so hard, just to hand over my check to someone else. So, with an 8-month-old baby, the choice was made for me to be home with him. Reluctant at first, but then soon embraced this wonderful privilege.

We were making it work. My husband at the time was a Maintenance Manager for a property, so our unit came discounted. We’ve always chose a simplified lifestyle, so we never needed a lot of things. But I was hungry. Not for money (I actually hate money, really)…but for being useful. I wanted to contribute. I became the QUEEN of Side Hustles mmkaay!! I started my own business as a Financial Consultant. I have always been really good with money and very organized. I got us out of debt, helped family members move into their own homes, helped friends buy their first cars. WHY NOT get paid for doing that, right!? I was a representative for a multi-level marketing company. I sold baby products (like Tupperware, but with baby stuff). I was a Loan Officer for a real estate firm. I. Did. It. ALL mmkaay! While still raising my beautiful son, teaching him ABCs and keeping on top of laundry. 

It became ingrained, innate. Tho, like I mention in this post, I was very aware of the fact too- that once money is involved, it could turn into something no longer fun. That’s why that thread hit so hard. I love to sew right. Especially after having my daughter, I would make little things for her with onesies that she outgrew. Lots of hair bows + headbands. Someone insisted I get into business with them. I was unenthusiastic about it, but somehow agreed. Sewing was fun for me…when I chose to do it and was inspired. But now I was having to meet quotas and put my personal hobby out there for people to judge. It became a chore. And my daughter was no longer benefiting from it. I stopped it before it ever became a thing.

WHY AM I TALKING ABOUT THIS, you ask? Hehe. Especially when I have previously divulged that I decided to monetize this Blog?! Lol. I also touched on that in the “Website Milestones” post…but again, didn’t get too much into it. (sigh) Here goes. Something I’ve neeeever talked about on here. But felt since it’s unfortunately a big part of my life, that I’m going to use this platform + opportunity to be vulnerable and share my story.

I am legally disabled.

I have a cane and wheelchair when I need extra help, and even a handicap placard.

(exhale) Whew! There, I said it.

Over 5 years ago when I entered trauma recovery, my body and nervous system also reacted. It had taken medical professionals that long to diagnose me as well. After many tests and labs and Specialists and misdiagnoses, they finally know what’s going on. The cane isn’t new, I’ve had to use that before. The diagnosis came in April of last year. And the wheelchair (even tho I’ve needed it for longer, but just never asked) came in June. Boyyy, it has been a struggle. I am a young 42yo. I don’t know how to be in that wheelchair and feel like myself. I get my lashes done to feel “cute”. I always feel like I have to wear my coolest clothes. My girlfriend joked with me, asking if she should make me a sign for the back of it: “You know I’m from Richmond right?” Hahah.

What does this have to do with money? No, I’m not trying to pull at your heartstrings like they do in American Idol intros before the auditions to get you to donate to my website!! (ay-yay-yay) I’m telling my Readers about their Author! I’m sharing with yall that YES, I visit Tea Rooms + Tea Houses all over the Bay Area. And I do this only once a month (well, that’s what’s scheduled…I can’t help if more tea times pop up HAHA) because that’s what my body allows. The rest of the time I’m not at afternoon tea- I am home resting, recuperating, and taking preventative measures until my next outing. After all is said and done about not necessarily wanting to turn Loves into income- monetizing this Blog is what allows me to continue doing it. The modest amount that comes from ads and donations fund my Tea Trips, because I am unable to go out and have a traditional 9 to 5. Even tho I didn’t HAVE to explain this, I wanted to. I think it goes a long way in getting to know who you’re supporting. When you are ‘Like’ing posts, viewing + heart’ing Stories, commenting, reposting, clicking on my links, reading this blog, entering your email to subscribe to it, filling out that donation form, interacting with us on Threads… YOU are allowing me to continue ENJOYING what I love to do, whether money is involved or not.

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Looking Forward

We are finishing the 3rd Leg of this Tour strong yall!!

We have visited TWELVE New Spots, squeezed-in THREE additional, and still have a possibility of visiting ONE more new one this month!! We did a Revisit in the Spring of this year, and are now ending the Tour with the remaining FIVE Revisits! That’s a lot of tea yall!! That’s TWENTY-ONE (maybe 22) Afternoon Tea Spots for the 3rd Leg of parTEA with me’s California Tea House Tour, from February 2023 to May 2024. Our fullest and longest one to date! 

I’m in the hat! [I don’t like to put my friend’s faces on my posts]

Also, here’s a little teaser on what’s going on for Leg 4!!!

But don’t worry- during my time off, I will still be going to Tea and sharing some things! Don’t forget to follow us on all the social media platforms (you’ll find links to each below), I post a little something different on each one. Thankful for all our Day One’s. (100 emoji here) Thank you to all those who CONSISTENTLY interact with our posts!! I see each and every one of you. And of course, a humongous ~THANK YOU~ to all who donate. I can’t even gather all the emotions to explain all of what that means to me. If you are moved to help us on the Tour, there is a form below. Check back to see if we made it to the Spot that is supposed to start serving afternoon tea this month… (cheesy emoji smile)

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Spot #41 :: Chelokababi

Our 41st Spot:

Chelokababi Persian Cuisine

1236 S Wolfe Road Sunnyvale, CA 94086

www.chelokababi.com

It was cute cuz I got a few tags + messages about this place…but I already had reservations! I’m a Detective, I’m tellin you! Doesn’t look like much outside, but when you go inside- (open mouth emoji) you really can’t tell a book by its cover. It was busy tho, so I took a few pics at the end of our visit when people started clearing out… You’ll see those at the end.

I’ve never had a “Persian” Tea before. I always get excited to try new themes of tea. We do have a Persian friend who used to love to cook for us, and his food was always good! So if it was anything like that, we were in for a really good meal!

Another treat to this Tea was that we had a visitor all the way from England able to come!! So we got to listen to that sweet accent the whole afternoon hehe. Also a first: a co-ed Tea! Here’s how that went… Since this was a squeezed in Spot (they just starting serving Afternoon Tea this past September) (and you know we do our best to get in as soon as possible), I hadn’t the faintest idea who to take with me and who would be interested in Persian Tea. I put a question sticker on my IG Stories, asking who liked Persian food. One of my friends responded, so I thought of taking her + her bestie (also a friend of mine). When I told the Huz I was going to try a Persian Tea, he said he was interested in going to that one! Ay-yay-yay! Fine, let’s all go!! The girls happen to have their friend from England visiting at the time, so it was an honor to have her join the Tour! Our original girlfriend ended up not being able to make it (missed you babe)…so it was just Mrs. Mamoa, England love, the Huz and me!

[Disclaimer: These photos coming up will not do this place and their food any justice. There was a beautiful ambiance and breathtaking environment. However, the yellowy spotlight directly over my head, created a terrible shadow of my growing baby hairs over each shot. So, I had to take my photos so far so as to not highlight my hair growth, lol. I also decided too late to just use my iPhone instead of fuss with my DSLR settings, so I’ll throw the few of those I took in there too.]

I’m usually not a fan of small amount of tea options. BUT- they have such amazing choices for the 6 that they offer, there was no complaint from me at all! Since there were 4 of us, we each chose a different one so we could try lots.

Persian Tea (An elegant rich blend of Earl Grey, Ceylon, and oil of Bergamot) – So glad my girl chose this one, cuz (well first, how do you go to a Persian Tea without ordering their Persian tea??) this one ended up being my favorite from the table. A really delicious earl grey.

Flora Green (Luxury flowering infusion of Premium Green Tea, Jasmine, and Rose) – My choice. If I can remember back (gosh, from over 40 Teas!), I wanna say this is the first we’ve been served a flowering tea!? So pretty! This one was faint in flavor, but still good.

Saffron Tea (Organically grown Saffron, Rose bud, Jasmin blossoms and Osmanthus) – The most intriguing of the batch for sure. My notes said “light, beautiful, so good.”

Holiday Basket (Black tea with Rose buds, Peppermint, Safflower, dried orange, and cranberries) – This one smelled so minty! It was minty but also creamy. I love me a creamy tea! Made me think of sweet mint gum…in a good way.

So, a tier came out… And I was so happy (a little confused, but mostly happy), that there was more than one each per person!!?! That was so fun to see!! Wasn’t quite 2 for each of us, but at least you can have more than 1 of an item. I loved that. We made sure we all had at least one each to try, then divvied up the rest. (Again, this is the best pic I got. So imagine what the others looked like!? I have better video of this tier…make sure you’re following us on Instagram!)

Smoked Salmon Bites – These weren’t like your traditional smoked salmon you get at usual afternoon tea spots. It was like a ‘moussed’ salmon! ”Very dilly”, says England love. The carrot was super crunchy (P.S. I love heirloom carrots.) and bread was chewy.

[iPhone shot]

Kalbas (Mortadella lavash rolls with petite Persian pickles and tomato aioli) – Didn’t realize why I loved this one so much til just now, typing the description from their menu. I love Mortadella!! (my Italian roots are clapping!) But this one was a bit different. I knew there was some sort of cold cut or sliced meat, but couldn’t put my finger on which exactly. But the picklessss (I’m whining) MADE this for me. There was also a little heat in the back, which I appreciated. The flavors + textures just all worked so well together in this one. I wasn’t shy about saying I wanted a 2nd piece!! Hehe.

2nd course!! (three clapping emojis)

[iPhone shot]

Spinach Filo (Filo pastry filled with spinach and feta cheese served with cucumber yogurt) – How cute is it that we got a 2nd course of Savories!? This pastry was soo comforting!! Warm + crispy. Who doesn’t love spinach filling? And that yogurt sauce, completed this so nicely.

Our 3rd course! This is so so fun.

Raspberry Scone (served with apricot and cherry jams) – My famous saying: “I could drink that stuff with a straw!!” Their cherry preserves mannn! You’ll see. You’ll see…in the background…I’ll have my own 2nd helping of it, while I’m taking pictures of other stuff haha! But wait- the scone was a GOOD scone too, tho. Sliced nicely, so all their gorgeous jams could sit on top no prob. Ugh, I LOVED this course!!

What happened next was something that doesn’t happen at ALL Afternoon Tea’s, but what I appreciate So. Much. . . . They gave us new plates yall. (about to cry emoji) I looooved that they did this!!! It’s an extra step, sure. But, it makes all the difference in the world! In my opinion anyway. I had a nice clean (and stunning too, might I add) plate for the next sweets. ESPECIALLY, for a (air quotes) Content Creator like myself. The next items had a beautiful background for their photo shoot, tada!

2nd tier/4th course.

[iPhone shot]

House Made Persian Love Cake (Cake Yazdi) – Never had a Love Cake before…but I’m so happy I did. Cardamom rose yall, car-da-mom ROSE! A classic combination. Soo soo good, I wish I had one in front of me right now!!

Noon Chai (Fluffy and lightly sweet roll with chocolate, and fresh strawberries) – This little sandwich was so refreshing! I could’ve eaten about 10 of those!

Mini Apple (not marzipan! Lol) – I’m still including my picture of the cutest, tiniest apple because it had its full dedicated photo shoot!! Haha. Kind of an inside joke, but at one point we thought it was a marzipan apple!! Hahah…

Here were the Huz’s remarks: “…desserts were not decadent, I liked that. It was a simply laid out Tea. Reflected the cuisine of the culture well. Not complicated at all. Simplicity and quality. Well done.”

And finally, here are some shots of the interior…

Absolutely attractive right!? I was already thinking of what kind of intimate party I can have back there and who I’m inviting!! I loved so much that there was a dedicated section of the restaurant for their Afternoon Tea. It made it so special! The interior is something out of a storybook, and I admired every little detail- down to the vases they served our water in! And every table got a different vessel.

This is a family owned business and Tea is the mastermind of their Aunt! She did an amazing job selecting every piece to this very special tea service. I will let her tell you all about it when you come in! The customer service here was unmatched. I think that’s a good part of why we can’t wait to come back so much. Food was extraordinary for sure. But the treatment we got was so good, it made it hard to leave. That’s another thing- IT WAS A FULL TEA EXPERIENCE. I can’t remember the last time I had a service that was 3 hours long!!?! And that used to be my favorite part!! It was a slow and steady process of enjoying each item presented to you. That’s the reason I got to know Mrs. Mamoa and England love better! We were given TIME!!! Some of these Afternoon Tea Spots (i.e. here) will start kicking you out after an hour and a half these days! I loved the leisure Chelokababi gifted us. It was a welcome time away from our day-to-day and we enjoyed every single minute. Thank you, Chelokababi, thank you!! (Btw- I already placed you on my raTEAng, and yall are pretty high up on that list already. Wink wink!)

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Spot #40 :: Claremont Hotel

Our 40th Spot:

Claremont Hotel

41 Tunnel Road Berkeley, CA 94705

claremontresortandclub.com

Have you ever been driving around the East Bay and notice this big beautiful white building in the hills?! Being from Richmond, we would see it all the time. I would hear about it all the time too. My bio mom worked for this really generous boss and she would get sent on weekend retreats there for spa treatments. She would come back telling us all about the food and the glamour of being there. So, I always viewed it as this ‘untouchable’ place that I would never have any business stepping foot in.

Well, that place is the Claremont. And, I had business to tend to in there!

Check out this view, too!

Yes, this was a new Spot I squished in on the Tour again! Tho the Claremont has been serving afternoon tea for decades, this is the first since the Pandemic that they’ve opened their doors for their seasonal offering. I booked the soonest day we had available. Because we were so starstruck just being INSIDE, we wanted to make sure we looked like we knew what we were doing and were important enough to have a reason to be there!! LOL. We passed by an area we thought Tea would be at, but there was a sign on an easel in the front that said “PRIVATE EVENT”. Yeah, that’s not us! So we kept on walking…

Still walking…and nothing. I approached the Concierge to ask where Afternoon Tea was being held, and she directed us to where that sign was. I reiterated- where it says Private Event?? She responds, “You are the Private Event!” (about to cry emoji) THE SWEETEST!!

Just look-

So luxurious right?! Are you excited?? I’m excited to tell you!

Organic Bella Coola Punch (A warming sip for cold winter nights with notes of creamy orange & pineapple) – Very tart, with a slight cream undertone…a punch for sure!

Ontario Icewine (Smooth and silky with light Riesling and berry notes) – I’ve had an icewine before that I really liked. But what caught my attention was the Riesling part! I used to love me some Riesling. My favorites were Pacific Rim and Chateau Ste Michelle… Anyway, I chose good!

There were too many good shots of this tier, I couldn’t choose just one! So enjoy all three!

Our server beautifully explained each carefully prepared piece. Everything was made in-house. From the bread, to that amazing honey. From the looks alone, you could tell attention to detail was important to them. The bottom tier of sweets had desserts themed from all over the world! I loved that part.

Sweet Potato Cheddar Biscuit (Apple Spiced Butter, Claremont Gold Honey) – I’m not really a fan of cheddar, but I had an open mind when trying this one. I put it all together with its designated fixings. Man oh man!! That thing was incredible! The combination was so complex, I didn’t even know how to describe it!? It became my favorite, fast. And I think it was all because of that honey!!

Cranberry Orange Scone (Blood Orange Preserve, Devonshire Cream) – Ugh, the crispiest edges! Again with the complex. The texture was on point sure, but the flavors were so so good together.

Truffled Egg Salad (Chive, Pain au Lait) – Speechless. I’m learning I really like egg and truffle together!

Honeynut Squash Tartine (Whipped Burrata, Toasted Hazelnuts, Smoked Honey) – There was quite a bite to the squash that was unexpected…thought it was gonna be more mushy, but I welcomed it! The herby flavor gave it much depth.

Smoked Mary’s Chicken Salad (Blistered Grapes, Compressed Celery, Croissant) – That meat was so tender!! Love the grapes, and lots of celery yay! It’s kinda like the chicken salad I make for the kids at home, but a much elevated version of course haha. Just saying that I loved the simplicity of it…especially because it’s like the version I like! Didn’t realize til I was typing it out now, that that was croissant bread!? Um, yum! When I got to the crust part of it, I was so happy about the bread! It’s a good bread.

Lobster Roll (Fermented Chili, Shaved Fennel, Brioche) – Loooved the crunch of that fennel so much! There was a little tiny aftertaste of spice from the lobster, that was nice. It was a little too much bread for me. I would’ve liked more lobster filling for a better ratio.

Shaved Prime Rib (Horseradish Aioli, Mizuna, Chive Parker House Roll) – With all that green poking out, I already knew I was gonna like this one. Didn’t know it was mizuna, but it so closely resembled arugula and the arugula-lover that I am appreciated that so much! The rib was so thinly sliced, rare, and buttery. Made for an easy bite, score points.

There was so much to try in this tea service, and everything was so hearty! It was a nice + welcome change from some services that have the tiniest mouthfuls of things. I took another bite or two of my sandwiches before I moved on to the sweets.

Citrus Cheesecake – Subtle cheese flavor, nice crust, the rind was fun to chew.

Matcha Cake – Very moist cake. That jello center was an interesting surprise. The matcha flavor was really mild.

Chocolate Hazelnut Financier – Sooo chewy! For the bottom and corners of this, think of brownie texture. I loved that part of this sweet so much. And it wasn’t rich at all.

Vanilla Panna Cotta – Since panna cotta is my all-time favorite kind of dessert, I always get excited when I see it on a menu. I wish I would’ve gotten to this sooner, cuz it was melty by the time I had it. Still good flavor, and the raspberry made it better.

Macarons – Our server didn’t know what flavors these were… My best guess would be pistachio and birthday cake. Either way, they were very good! I said I coulda had the whole bottom tier just be these macarons and woulda been fine with that!

The service here was very noteworthy. Everyone treated us with so much kindness. Our server had been in the hospitality industry for some time and you could tell. He was informative about the building and history of the hotel and had a nice conversation with us at the end of our meal. That alone will change my whole tone of my review. If you serve me a step above mediocre food BUT THEN show me some genuine personal interest on top of that, you just raised my experience.

I’m so glad we got to have tea here. Being able to say I went inside the Claremont was worth it alone! The amount of food they present is definitely the value for what you’re paying. As high class of an establishment, no one makes you feel like you don’t belong there. At the end of our party, we were met with the most STUNNING Bay Area sunset. I kinda went crazy with my shots between the DSLR and iPhone! Here’s just a couple… Enjoy!

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Did yall know there are FORTY-TWO places to have Afternoon Tea around the greater Bay area!!?! We did. Hahaha! Yes, it has been another 6 Spots yall! For our new Readers: After every 6 visited Tea Spots, I put together a rating from They have no business serving afternoon tea to Why haven’t I been going here all along!! You guys LOVE these posts and show us so much love when I do em. Hope this helps you save some time + money for your next Tea Party!

42. iChina Restaurant, Santa Clara – Unsanitary tea spouts…need I say more?

41. Tal-Y-Tara Tea & Polo Shoppe, San Francisco – Outright rude and has no business being a tea house.

40. Tudor Rose English Tea Room, Santa Rosa – Eleven levels of tea service and you don’t even want one.

39. Secret Garden Tea House, San Francisco – Filthy place with yummy scones.

38. The Tearoom, Oakland – They don’t know how to make tea, don’t go.

37. Tea Time, Palo Alto – Awkward dirty cafe that left us thirsty.

36. The Golden Tea Garden, Hayward – Bad-mannered + arrogant owner with dollar store decor + tea.

35. Leland Tea Company, Burlingame – A cafe that serves food you can make yourself at home + buy yourselves from shelves, on 3 tiers.

34. Sip Tea Room, San Francisco – Take 2 of boring tea.

33. The RoyalTea Garden, Pleasanton – Forgettable tea service.

32. Son & Garden, Palo Alto – Take your selfie, leave the tea.

31. Croissante, Santa Clara – Not everyone needs to offer afternoon tea, especially this place.

30. Linde Lane Tea Room, Dixon – Snooty but pretty with fun sorbet intro.

29. Lovejoy’s Tea Room, San Francisco – Pretentious area with spectacular Black Vanilla tea.

28. Quail & Thistle Tea Room, Capitola – Adorable building with overwhelming all-in-one plate.

27. The Rotunda at Nieman Marcus, San Francisco – Matter-of-fact service and expensive teeny tasteless food.

26. Eddison & Melrose Tea Room, Monterey – Okay tea, but recognition of who we were made my year.

25. Proper Hotel, San Francisco – Hodgepodge decor and hit-or-miss tea party foods.

24. Satori Tea Company, San Jose – Interesting + eclectic, rum butter crumpets, and purple tea.

23. Filoli Gardens, Woodside – Stunning garden views with subpar overpriced cuisine.

22. The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco – A definite must-experience with exceptional service.

21. Fairmont Hotel, San Francisco – Complex + unique flavors that just work, and a have-to-have pear compote.

20. Napa Valley Wine Train, Napa – A luxury and leisure tea I could totally get used to.

19. The St. Regis, San Francisco – A tea service that makes you feel rich, regal, and important.

18. Palace Hotel, San Francisco – Breathtaking surroundings and flawless food.

17. Lovey’s Tea Shoppe, Pacifica – Black Vanilla with Lavender tea, asparagus sandwich, and sweet staff.

16. Camellia Tea Room, Benecia – Impeccable service and an all-around wonderful time.

15. Lisa’s Tea Treasures, Los Altos – Like going to your sister’s house and having delicious tea.

14. Maison Danel, San Francisco – A Croissant-Lover’s dream, but get dropped off.

13. Crown & Crumpet Tea Stop Cafe, San Francisco – Unforgettable crumpets and scrumptious tea sandwiches.

12. Tal’s Patisserie, Danville – Best rustic tea meal for a bread-lover, with best store-bought tea.

11. Pardee Home, Oakland – A tour in a tour that will feed you until satisfaction and the definition of ‘cuteness overload’.

10. Alexander’s Patisserie, Mountain View – Home to the Best Tea Sandwich I’ve had on the entire Tour.

9. Crown & Crumpet, Ross – Gold standard of Afternoon Tea.

8. Jade Chocolates, San Francisco – Lilikoi marshmallow.

7. Dartealing Lounge, San Francisco – Best sandwiches and cutest ambiance.

6. The White Hart Tea Room, Pacific Grove – Really like going to someone’s house for tea (cuz you are), and having true homemade food (cuz you are).

5. Four Seasons, Palo Alto – Really good everything and you’ll want to come back already by the end of your meal.

4. Malaya Tea Room, Alameda – New go-to spot with exemplary finger sandwiches.

3. The English Rosa Tea Room, Pleasanton – A hundred delectable teas and textbook shabby chic decor.

2. Tyme for Tea & Co., Fremont – The perfect tea house, with perfect food, and perfect service.

1. Muir’s Tea Room, Sebastopol – There are no words invented yet that describe how GOOD this Tea Spot is, it excels in all aspects of Afternoon Tea.

So- how many have you tried from this list?? How many do you have yet to try?! We wanna know all the deats!! Share your stories in the comments! The good, the bad, the never again haha! We love putting this list together for you all. Over the years doing this Tour, I have made some pretty cool relationships with some of these tea house + tea room owners. I get so excited when I’m able to tell them you’re coming after reading this Blog!! Thank you for all your messages + DMs, I appreciate you. Thank you for keeping this Blog alive! Thank you for letting me write as my job. Love yall.

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Spot #38 :: Crown & Crumpet Ross

Our 38th Spot:

Crown & Crumpet

22 Ross Common Ross, CA 94957

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If this tea room’s name looks familiar, it’s cuz we’ve visited them before…but in the City! Crown & Crumpet has been around for a long time!! Their first location was in Ghirardelli, that’s when my love affair with them started. Who remembers the story about the facebook pictures and my bedridden pregnancy!? Ahh, huh, ah-ha! So, our very first Spot on the Tour in 2014 was their next location (btw the Ghirardelli one closed) in Japantown. That’s when I met their cheeky owner, love her. Read about that visit here. When I opened the Tour again and started our 3rd Leg, she invited us to visit their Ross location. Of course we would!

Now it’s got its own Spot Number and Review, because they’re different! Just like Lovey’s is different from Lovejoy’s

I didn’t get too much of the interior (1) cuz there were people eating in there, and (2) cuz I was already busy talking with the owner when we got there! But here’s a pic or two…

We had a bit of a drive to get there…a little over an hour. And it was such a rainy day. But we were still thrilled to have this adventure scheduled! In April of this year, I was so honored to be invited to a friend’s first time to C&C’s place in San Francisco. She had always wanted to go, and I had the privilege of attending with her. Since C&C was her JAM, I invited her to this tea party too! We took another cutie friend, and the 2 coolest gramma’s you will ever meet!! (too young to be my gramma’s, but happy to have them as friends!) I felt so flattered that they agreed to spend the afternoon with me. Just the ride over was already fantastic! Nothing like passing San Quentin and being in Pac’s hometown of Marin hehe. So. Many. Inside jokes… Such a cute little town, Ross is. We woulda loved to spend more time perusing the boutique shops around their main street feel!

When she walked us to the back to our table and it was OUTSIDE- (the ‘I can’t handle this’ emoji) let’s all say it together: “I love eating outside!!!” Since I don’t look at social media or websites too much before visits, I either didn’t know or had forgotten that they had an outdoor option. Even their tents were so cute with window details! They helped us feel so comfy back there. We had cozy blankets, heaters on (that later we even turned off), and even (guys) purse holders were offered! This elevated the experience for me already.

After we got settled in, we all took turns selecting our teas. Here’s what we ordered at our table: Alice Drink Me Tea (raspberry, white peach, strawberry black), Pretty in Pink (strawberry vanilla herbal), Earl Grey (bergamot black), Swamp Water (tropical rooibos), and my pick Lychee Congou (special reserve black). Everyone absolutely loved their choices! Especially my friend who ordered their Alice blend, she even purchased some on our way out. My Lychee was soo good (yall know I love me a lychee tea), it was like lychee but also creamy!? Happy they were happy!!

We’re sitting there enjoying our teas and the rain really starts pouring. Ugh, it was BEAUTUFUL. Hearing the pitter-patter of each of those chunky raindrops hit the canopy we were under… While sipping our hot drinks… I could’ve stayed under there forever. I JUST LOVED IT!!

I’m always saying this but I never do it… I need to record them when they’re explaining what’s on the tiers, especially when each item isn’t listed in detail on their menus! I legit got quiet when they were sharing with the table next to us, and told all my friends to ear hustle so we could get the deats again! Haha! I have some official names aand some I made up…hehe.

I always go for my Crumpet first. And they bring it out warm, so come on! Theirs is perfect, lemme just say that right here. It might not look like much in the picture…but I can assure you, each of those crannies are filled with buttery goodness. The edges are crispy, the middle is chewy. And their fixings aren’t pictured here, but they lovingly gave us EACH our own to use and (ugh I wanna cry) their clotted cream and house-made lemon curd + jam = gold standard, period.

Cucumber Sandwich – Okay so, their cucumber is a bit soggy. Yes, I admit. However. I love me some chewy soggy bread thooo!! This one almost melts in your mouth AND they put something a little different in theirs!? Like, I kinda tasted dill…but…it could be something different, I don’t know. It’s one of those tastes that make you go hmm.

Egg Salad on Croissant – You can see it in there, I know you can. There’s a big chunck of GREEN ONION. Right there! There! (whiny emoji) If you’re a longtime reader of this blog (thanks for still being here, love ya for that), you’ll know I hate me some green onions. (green nauseated emoji) Can’t stand em, won’t eat em, can’t do em. When I’m watching a cooking show with the Huz and they add that scallion business on anything, I have to obnoxiously + verbally take my stand on my hatred. BUT. I don’t know if I was feeling brave or didn’t wanna bother with the removal project… (takes a deep breath) I just freely took my bites out that sandwich. And you know what. I loved it. There, I said it.

Coronation Chicken Sandwich (lightly curried chicken with apricots, almonds, green onions & mango chutney) – Their menu says “lightly” but that didn’t taste ‘lightly’ to me. That joint was FULL of curry flavor. I’ve had a number of curry chicken sandwiches on this Tour in the last almost 10 years, and my friends, that is one SLAMMIN chicken curry sandwich!! (three clapping emojis) I couldn’t get enough. I woulda eaten a whole loaf mmkay, of those things!

Sausage Savory – This may not look like much (I know I said that already about something else huh), but don’t let this tiny bite fool you. It packs a smoky punch boyy!

Brie Tart – That’s a sturdy pastry!! Made this savory so much more fun, that crumbly crunch. The brie and jelly were a match made for each other! So yum.

Chocolate Dipped Strawberry – Always a happy-maker. I could eat these all day!

Cinnamon Cake – Dense bread, subtle spice.

Lavendar Rosemary Shortbread – Crispy cookie, light flavor, the sugar crystals gave exciting texture!

Apricot Bar – I wanted a whole 9 by 13 of this!! I savored every morsel. Not too sweet, great textures (with the crunchy bottom, gooey center + crumbly topping). Absolutely delicious!

Cranberry (I think) Scone – And last but not least! Just a really good standard scone. Fluffy, nice flavor. Couldn’t say anything bad about it if I tried!

Honestly, I breezed through my pictures + notes! Even forgot to post on Threads for my ‘Real Time Thoughts’ hahah. (I mean, I did post…but not as well as I could’ve) I was just thoroughly enjoying myself with my guests, I wanted to join in on all that laughter that was being had!! The owner of C&C (as I’m sure I’ve mentioned in previous blog posts + social media) is just such a riot, she always hosts us to such a good time. And as I told her verbatim, “I could never say anything bad about this place.” They know what they’re doing with tea and they do an exceptional job with it all. We browsed around their shop next door, met their sweet Shop Girl! Used the bathroom one last time before our long drive home, and took photos with their Queen cut-out on the wall hehe. Can’t wait to come back here! If yall find yourselves out that way, please stop by and have some Tea at the Crown & Crumpet. You won’t be sorry you did!

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Since I decided to monetize this Blog and make it worth my while (even tho the pure satisfaction of writing is totally enough for me), it’s been fun feeling so official and putting a little more pep in my step with these Spot Visits + blog posts. And if you follow us on Instagram, you’ll know I was recently dubbed “Queen of Tea in the Bay Area” hehe. Thank you, thank you! (bowing)

This passed weekend was a FULL weekend of work. Sharing more of each event on our Instagram account, so follow us there if you’re not already! Friday afternoon, I took the Huz on a date to try the Four Seasons new tea service menu. Every bite was more stunning + satisfying than the next. And I am thoroughly convinced that I am the biggest fan of Vanilla Oil and Truffle Honey. Um, YUUUUM. My standout favorites were their Smoked Salmon Crostini, Matcha Green Tea Cheesecake, and Pumpkin Cheesecake Macaron. Service is always amazing there. We did a 4:45p reservation, and had the whole place to ourselves!! So it was nice + quiet. I think we did that last time…missed the crowd, on purpose. For a new hotel afternoon tea service, the Four Seasons sure does know what they’re doing over there.

The following morning, we got ready and headed into the City. The SF Tea Fest was in town yall! OF COURSE, parTEA with me was gonna be in the house!! It was so great learning about new brands and meeting the owners behind them. The best sips I had were from Sips Global Teas Butterscotch black tea, Justea‘s Cream Earl Grey, Saku Tea Superfood Latte Blends Vanilla Maple Jade and Ruby Cocoa, and Sporgy Mushrooms Mush Love Tea Cafe and Awaken. Check them out! We thought it was funny or interesting that the longest line there was for Harney & Sons. Don’t get me wrong, love the brand. I have their tea tins all over my room holding all my stationary supplies. (meaning I’ve had a ton of Harney in my day) But like- you could get that at Target yall. Jus sayin… The Huz goes, “That just shows you the extent of people’s knowledge in tea.” He’s not wrong.

While my weekend was packed, it felt so good to be in the Tea Community. We are in the thick of the Tour now (sweat bead emoji)! Tho I keep finding new places to visit and it keeps getting extended!! No complaints here, happy to do it. For myself, for all my guests, and for all yall! Grateful for views, grateful for Subscribers (have you entered your email yet??), grateful for Donators. Thank you for allowing me to do something that brings me so much joy and is good for my nervous system haha.

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